Testotherapy: Is she a lesbian?

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I suspect that my girlfriend is a lesbian. She hangs out with a lot of gay women and I once saw her kiss one of her friends.

How do I approach her and find out whether she is a lesbian or not?


Set a trap for her, watch an episode of Gray’s Anatomy and ask her if she had a choice, would she do Meredith Gray or Dr. McDreamy and based on what she says you will know which side of the fence she leans on.

Jokes aside. The only way to know is to ask. However be sensitive on how you phrase your question.

You don’t want to come across as being jealous or homophobic, however she needs to understand that you care about her and you want the truth.

Hopefully your relationship is at that stage where both of you are be open and truthful with other that she will tell you.